How NOT To Be a Youth Pastor

On today’s episode, Kyle and Derek continue their conversation about what the ideal graduate looks like by discussing spiritual disciples and attendance goals.

We know that, as youth pastors, we are supposed to be shepherding students toward Jesus. But what, exactly, should we be aiming for? On today’s episode, Kyle and Derek discuss what the ideal graduate might look like, and how we can aim to get there.

COVID-19 had a huge impact on every aspect of our culture, including churches. Many aspects of “doing church” were forever changed, whether that was for good or bad. On today’s episode, Kyle and Derek talk about some of the ways that church life has changed in the post-COVID era.

As a leader, there are plenty of things we CAN do. But as you rise in leadership ranks, there are rights that you give up voluntarily that make you a better leader. On today’s episode, Kyle and Derek talk about some of the things that Youth Pastors, executives, or anyone in a leadership position can no longer do.

Having a soundboard is good. Deafening your students is not. Having lights and haze can be impactful when done well. Setting off the fire alarms is not. On today's episode, Kyle and Derek dive into the elements that go into creating the right atmosphere in the room, and some mistakes to avoid.

We've all been there. Sitting in a church service, scrolling through social media, or watching professional athletes, and... there it is. A Bible verse quoted, but totally out of context! On today's episode, Kyle and Derek share some of the top verses they see misinterpreted and give the true heart behind the words.

Every youth ministry has them. The kids that sit in the back every week, probably on their phones or distracting others, and definitely not paying attention. As a youth pastor, what do you do? They're causing disturbances, but that probably means they need Jesus! On today's episode, Kyle and Derek dive into this conundrum Youth Pastors face on a weekly basis.

Tithing is talked about as an important aspect of our faith when we are adults. But what does that look like for teenagers? Kyle and Derek talk about lump sum giving, inconsistent paychecks, and how to teach tithing in youth ministry.

The goal of a youth pastor is longevity; being in students' lives for a long time. Sometimes, that might result in being asked to officiate the wedding of a former youth student! On today's episode, Kyle and Derek break down the elements they use in pre-marital counseling.

We cannot stress enough that, as a pastor, the Bible should be the first, second, and third place you draw from. Whether it's inspiration, leadership, or self-development, that's where our growth should start. But if you're looking for supplemental resources, this episode is for you! Kyle and Derek share some of their favorite books that they've read recently.